If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
The sisters and brothers that you meet give you the materials which your character uses to build itself. It is said that some people are born great, others achieve it, some have it thrust upon them. In truth, the ways in which your character is built have to do with all three of those. Those around you, those you choose, and those who choose you.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our character is shaped by the people we meet and interact with throughout life.
This quote from Maya Angelou emphasizes the idea that our character is not solely determined by our inherent traits or achievements, but is significantly influenced by our relationships with others. It suggests that everyone we encounter contributes to the development of who we are, highlighting the importance of community, choice, and the interconnectedness of human experiences in shaping our identity.
Themes
CharacterRelationshipsGrowthCommunityInfluence
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal development, one might use this quote to illustrate the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences.
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