The germ of an idea doesn't make the sculpture that stands up... so the next stage is hard work
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It is not the skills we actually have that determine how we feel but the ones we think we have.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our perception of our skills impacts our emotions more than our actual abilities.
This quote emphasizes the importance of mindset in shaping our feelings and experiences. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi suggests that it is not our actual skills that dictate our emotions, but rather our beliefs about those skills, highlighting the power of self-perception in influencing emotional states and overall well-being.
Themes
SkillsPerceptionMindsetEmotionBelief
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational seminar to inspire attendees to build self-confidence.
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