In a public dialogue with Salman in London he [Edward Said] had once described the Palestinian plight as one where his people, expelled and dispossessed by Jewish victors, were in the unique historical position of being 'the victims of the victims': there was something quasi-Christian, I thought, in the apparent humility of that statement.
You know, you can make a small mistake in language or etiquette in Britain, or you could when I was younger, and really be made to feel it, and it's the flick of a lash, but it would sting, and especially at school where there's not much privacy, and so on. You could, yes, undoubtedly be made to feel crushed.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Social mistakes in language or etiquette can have a significant emotional impact, particularly in a school setting.
This quote by Christopher Hitchens highlights the sensitivity of social interactions, especially in a structured environment like a school. A minor error in language or manners can evoke strong reactions from peers, leading to feelings of humiliation or emotional distress. The pressure to conform and the lack of privacy in such settings can amplify the impact of these small missteps, making individuals feel vulnerable and exposed. Ultimately, it underscores the importance of understanding cultural nuances and the potential consequences of social faux pas.
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Example use cases
Discussing the importance of social skills in a classroom setting.
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