Love consists in leaving the loved one space to be themselves while providing the security within which that self may flourish.
Social democrats are characteristically modest - a political quality whose virtues are overestimated. We need to apologise a little less for our shortcomings and speak more assertively of achievements. That these were always incomplete should not trouble us.
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This quote emphasizes the need for social democrats to take pride in their accomplishments rather than overly focusing on their shortcomings.
Tony Judt suggests that social democrats have a tendency to be modest about their achievements and to dwell on their imperfections. He argues that this modesty can be counterproductive, and instead, they should recognize and assert their successes, even if those successes are not perfect or complete. The idea is that acknowledging accomplishments can inspire confidence and momentum in their political efforts.
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In a political rally, to encourage party members to celebrate their past wins rather than dwell on what has not yet been achieved.
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