Do not live with a vocation that is harmful to humans and nature. Do not invest in companies that deprive others of their chance to live. Select a vocation that helps realise your ideal of compassion.
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So if we love someone, we should train in being able to listen. By listening with calm and understanding, we can ease the suffering of another person. [True Love. A Practice for Awakening the Heart.]
Interpretation
What this quote means
Listening with compassion is essential to loving someone.
This quote emphasizes the importance of listening in relationships. By cultivating calm and understanding while listening, we can significantly alleviate another person's pain and demonstrate our love for them through our presence and empathy.
Themes
LoveListeningCompassionUnderstandingEmpathy
In practice
Example use cases
In a relationship seminar, to emphasize the importance of listening in love.
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