Relapse is very dangerous. However, relapse can be a symptom of the disease. Sometimes there are multiple relapses before you get sober and stay sober.
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If you love someone who's an addict and their use is life-threatening, you don't wait until they hit bottom because that can mean that they're going to die. You have to do everything you can to get them in treatment.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Loving someone with an addiction requires urgent action to help them before it's too late.
David Sheff emphasizes that loving someone who struggles with addiction is not about waiting for them to hit rock bottom but rather taking proactive steps to ensure their safety and encourage them to seek treatment. Addiction can be life-threatening, and timely intervention can be the difference between life and death, making it crucial to act decisively out of love.
Themes
AddictionLoveTreatmentLife-ThreateningHelp
In practice
Example use cases
During a support group meeting about addiction, you might share this quote to highlight the importance of taking action.
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