I can only control what I do when I go compete.
Simone BilesRead
If I disappoint someone, it's their loss for putting that expectation on me when they don't know me. I can't control what they want.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the importance of not feeling responsible for others' expectations and judgments.
In this quote, Simone Biles reflects on the concept of expectations in relationships. She suggests that when people place expectations on her without truly knowing her, any disappointment caused is a result of their own assumptions rather than her actions. This highlights the idea that we cannot control how others perceive or expect from us, and it encourages individuals to be true to themselves rather than conforming to external expectations.
In practice
In a motivational speech about self-acceptance and authenticity.
I can only control what I do when I go compete.
I always say my biggest competitor is myself because, whenever I step out there on the mat, I'm competing against myself to prove that I can do this and that I am very well trained, prepared for it.
It was a very long and hard decision. My dad kept telling me, 'You can always go to college, but you can't always go pro.' That made sense to me.
Always work hard and have fun in what you do because I think that's when you're more successful. You have to choose to do it.
We've always had each other's backs in and out of competition. We support each other the most because we're the only ones that know what it's like to go through what we do, and so we can't be more thankful for each other. We're like sisters.
A successful competition for me is always going out there and putting 100 percent into whatever I'm doing. It's not always winning. People, I think, mistake that it's just winning. Sometimes it could be, but for me, it's hitting the best sets I can, gaining confidence, and having a good time and having fun.
The mind usually says, βI know, I know, I know.β But the βdonβt-know mindβ is where wisdom lives.
It is a universal principle that you get more of what you think about, talk about, and feel strongly about.
In times like these, it helps to recall that there have always been times like these.
Some men's words I remember so well that I must often use them to express my thought. Yes, because I perceive that we have heard the same truth, but they have heard it better.
I have no views as to where it will be, but the one thing I can tell you is it won't do anything between now and then except look at you. Whereas, you know, Coca-Cola (KO) will be making money, and I think Wells Fargo (WFC) will be making a lot of money and there will be a lot - and it's a lot - it's a lot better to have a goose that keeps laying eggs than a goose that just sits there and eats insurance and storage and a few things like that.
I'm encouraging you to know what you're worth. And know that no matter who has more money in class, who has more stuff, who has a country house - nobody is worth more than anybody else.
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