We all live in suspense, from day to day, from hour to hour; in other words, we are the hero of our own story.
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If someone tells you he is going to make a 'realistic decision', you immediately understand that he has resolved to do something bad.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that the term 'realistic decision' often implies choosing a morally questionable path.
Mary McCarthy's quote points to the idea that when people frame their choices as 'realistic,' they may be masking unethical considerations behind a facade of practicality. It challenges the notion that realism is inherently virtuous, suggesting that what is deemed realistic can often align with negative or harmful actions.
Themes
RealismEthicsDecisionsMoralityPracticality
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about ethical leadership, you could quote this to emphasize the importance of integrity over mere practicality.
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