Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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If someone irritates you, it is only your own response that is irritating you. Therefore, when anyone seems to be provoking you, remember that it is only your judgment of the incident that provokes you. -
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our responses to irritations are often the source of our irritation, not the actions of others.
Epictetus, a Stoic philosopher, emphasizes that external events are not inherently irritating; rather, it is our subjective judgments and reactions that lead to our feelings of irritation. This perspective encourages self-reflection, suggesting that individuals have the power to change their responses to situations and, in turn, their emotional experiences.
Themes
IrritationResponseJudgmentStoicismSelf-ControlPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
In a therapy session discussing personal reactions to stress.
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