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If something takes too long, something happens to you. You become all and only the thing you want and nothing else, for you have paid too much for it, too much in wanting and too much in waiting and too much in getting.
Robert Penn Warren
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Desire and prolonged waiting can consume you, changing your identity and priorities.

This quote reflects on how intense longing and the anticipation for something over time can lead to an all-consuming focus on that desire. As one invests significant emotional energy into wanting something, it can overshadow other aspects of life and even transform one's identity and sense of self, suggesting that protracted desire may not always yield a positive outcome.

Themes

DesireWaitingIdentityFocusTransformation

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational speech about overcoming obstacles, one can use this quote to discuss the dangers of becoming too fixated on a goal.

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