My mother was a very wonderful woman. When she and my dad divorced, she moved to California and worked two jobs in the cannery at night and as a waitress during the day. But she saved enough money to establish a restaurant.
Dolores HuertaRead
If you haven't forgiven yourself something, how can you forgive others?
Interpretation
Forgiveness starts within; you must forgive yourself before you can forgive others.
In this quote, Dolores Huerta emphasizes the importance of self-forgiveness as a prerequisite for being able to forgive others. If individuals carry guilt or resentment towards themselves for past mistakes, it creates a barrier to extending compassion and forgiveness to those around them. True healing often begins with the acceptance of oneβs own flaws and the ability to let go of personal grievances.
In practice
During a workshop on emotional healing, this quote can be shared to illustrate the process of forgiveness.
My mother was a very wonderful woman. When she and my dad divorced, she moved to California and worked two jobs in the cannery at night and as a waitress during the day. But she saved enough money to establish a restaurant.
Every moment is an organizing opportunity, every person a potential activist, every minute a chance to change the world.
When you have a conflict, that means that there are truths that have to be addressed on each side of the conflict. And when you have a conflict, then it's an educational process to try to resolve the conflict. And to resolve that, you have to get people on both sides of the conflict involved so that they can dialogue.
Let's teach kids, at the kindergarten level, what the contributions of people of color were to building the United States of America.
If people don't vote, everything stays the same. You can protest until the sky turns yellow or the moon turns blue, and it's not going to change anything if you don't vote.
The leaders come up from the volunteers that do the work, and it's amazing because then they do these incredible things in their community that they never thought they had the power to make that happen.
It's absolutely essential that we have the same safeguards that straight couples do. But I want more than a 50 percent chance of success. I don't want to emulate that.
The three short years I spent at Harvard, where I lived with excellent people, taught me not only that I must know how to choose my partners but also that choosing excellent partners is a skill you can learn. Obviously, when you spend time with the best, you learn how to choose among them.
Let us be kinder to one another.
The Catholic community must offer support to those women who may find it difficult to accept a child, above all when they are isolated from their family and friends. Likewise, the community should be open to welcome back all who repent of having participated in the grave sin of abortion, and should guide them with pastoral charity to accept the grace of forgiveness, the need for penance, and the joy of entering once more into the new life of Christ.
This is what I miss, Cordelia: not something thatβs gone, but something that will never happen. Two old women giggling over their tea.
It's frightening when things you love appear suddenly changed from what you have always known.
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