Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold onto something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t come back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the pain of trying to cling to relationships that feel out of reach, highlighting the vulnerability of wanting to be wanted.
Henry Rollins expresses the frustration and heartache that comes when we desperately try to maintain connections with people or things that seem to slip away from us. The quote delves into the emotional turmoil of needing acceptance and feeling guilty for wanting to be desired. It portrays the internal conflict of recognizing our feelings as valid while grappling with the loneliness that often stems from such desires not being reciprocated.
In practice
This quote could serve as a reflection in a discussion about breakups and the difficulties of moving on.
Some people see Black Friday as a much-needed break for their wallet. I see it as retail outlets showing the customers the full weight of their contempt. The frenzy to buy cheap crap from China, the human downgrade of people fighting with each other over items they can probably live without, to me, is an insult.
Strength is the product of struggle, you must do what others don't to achieve what others won't.
Sitting in a room, alone, listening to a CD is to be lonely. Sitting in a room alone with an LP crackling away, or sitting next to the turntable listening to a song at a time via 7-inch single is enjoying the sublime state of solitude.
When the Iron doesn't want to come off the mat, it's the kindest thing it can do for you. If it flew up and went through the ceiling, it wouldn't teach you anything.
If you paid Americans a living wage, they would be able to pay for products made by Americans in America.
If I lose the light of the sun, I will write by candlelight, moonlight, no light. If I lose paper and ink, I will write in blood on forgotten walls. I will write always. I will capture nights all over the world and bring them to you
If you're going to be a Christian, you're going to change. You're going to lose some old friends, not because you want to, but because you need to.
You’re lost in your own world, in the things that happen there, and you’ve locked all the doors. Sometimes I look at you sleeping. I wake up and look at you and I feel closer to you when you’re like that, unguarded, than when you’re awake. When you’re awake you’re like someone with her eyes closed, watching a movie on the inside of your eyelids. I can’t reach you anymore. Once upon a time I could, but not now, and not for a long time.
The demands of having to be 'masculine' are as damaging to men as the demands of having to be 'feminine' are to women. I wish we could all agree just to wash it all away. Begin again.
I'm continually amazed by how many people who appear to be extroverts are actually introverts.
If you do something for someone else, never remember. If someone does something for you, never forget.
In the course of a marriage, one accommodates the other.
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