I think there are a lot of rules for women. We have a lot of expectations and a lot of rules for women. So we're expected to march in a straight line, and when we don't, all hell breaks loose.
Roxane GayRead
It sometimes feels like the workplace is immune from social upheaval. We go to work and do the best we can, and at the end of the day, we return to our lives. We don't abandon who we are, however, when we begin and end our workday. Who we are shapes how we are perceived in the workplace and, in turn, how we perform in the workplace.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our identities influence our performance at work and how we are seen by others.
This quote emphasizes the integral connection between our personal identities and our professional lives. It suggests that even though work may seem separate from the broader social context, our true selves inevitably shape our workplace experience, affecting both our interactions and performance.
Themes
IdentityWorkplacePerformancePerceptionSocial Upheaval
In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting to discuss company culture and values.
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