My children cause me the most exquisite suffering of which I have any experience. It is the suffering of ambivalence: the murderous alternation between bitter resentment and raw-edged nerves, and blissful gratification and tenderness. Sometimes I seem to myself, in my feelings toward these tiny guiltless beings, a monster of selfishness and intolerance.
I soon began to sense a fundamental perceptual difficulty among male scholars (and some female ones) for which 'sexism' is too facile a term. It is really an intellectual defect, which might be termed 'patrivincialism' or patrochialism': the assumption that women are a subgroup, that men's culture is the 'real' world, that patriarchy is equivalent to culture and culture to patriarchy, that the 'great' or 'liberalizing' periods of history have been the same for women as for men.
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What this quote means
The quote critiques the male-centric perspective in scholarship, arguing that it undermines women's contributions and experiences.
Adrienne Rich emphasizes the pervasive issue of male-centric viewpoints in academia, which she describes as an intellectual defect beyond simple sexism. This perspective dismisses women as an equally valid part of culture and history, instead promoting the notion that male experiences represent the universal norm. By coining terms like 'patrivincialism,' she challenges the assumption that history has been the same for both genders, advocating for a broader understanding of cultural contributions.
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In a discussion on gender representation in literature, this quote can highlight the need for diverse perspectives.
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