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[Speaking] is never without fear; of visibility, of the harsh light of scrutiny and perhaps judgment, of pain, of death. But we have lived through all of those already, in silence, except death. And I remind myself all the time now, that if I were to have been born mute, and had maintained an oath of silence my whole life for safety, I would still have suffered, and I would still die.
Audre Lorde
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Speaking carries inherent fears, yet silence leads to suffering too.

Audre Lorde's quote emphasizes the importance of expressing oneself despite the fears and judgments that may accompany speaking out. She reflects on the harsh realities of life, suggesting that avoiding expression to escape scrutiny ultimately results in suffering, highlighting that whether voicing thoughts or remaining silent, pain and mortality are universal experiences.

Themes

FearSilenceExpressionSufferingCourage

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can inspire individuals in a motivational speech about overcoming fears of public speaking.

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