It's strange. You never start out life with the intention of becoming a bankrupt or an alcoholic or a cheat and a thief. Or a liar.
Interpretation
This quote reflects on how life's unintended circumstances can lead individuals down dark paths despite their initial intentions.
Raymond Carver's quote captures the irony of human existence, highlighting that people rarely set out to make poor choices that lead to failure or moral decline. Instead, these outcomes often arise from a series of unforeseen events or decisions, suggesting a commentary on the unpredictability of life and the human condition.
In practice
When discussing the unpredictability of life choices during a motivational speech.
Woke up this morning with a terrific urge to lie in bed all day and read. Fought against it for a minute. Then looked out the window at the rain. And gave over. Put myself entirely in the keep of this rainy morning. Would I live my life over again? Make the same unforgivable mistakes? Yes, given half a chance. Yes.
Fiction shows the external effects of internal conditions. Be aware of the tension between internal and external movement.
I loved you so much once. I did. More than anything in the whole wide world. Imagine that. What a laugh that is now. Can you believe it? We were so intimate once upon a time I can't believe it now. The memory of being that intimate with somebody. We were so intimate I could puke. I can't imagine ever being that intimate with somebody else. I haven't been.
Every great or even every very good writer makes the world over according to his own specifications.
When I'm writing, I write every day. It's lovely when that's happening. One day dovetailing into the next. Sometimes I don't even know what day of the week it is.
When you're writing fiction or poetry... it really comes down to this: indifference to everything except what you're doing... A young writer could do worse than follow the advice given in those lines.
People sacrifice the present for the future. But life is available only in the present. That is why we should walk in such a way that every step can bring us to the here and the now.
You'll be old and you never lived, and you kind of feel silly to lie down and die and to never have lived, to have been a job chaser and never have lived.
If Miss Honeychurch ever takes to live as she plays, it will be very exciting--both for us and for her.
For the millions of us who live glued to computer keyboards at work and TV monitors at home, food may be more than entertainment. It may be the only sensual experience left.
Before undergoing a surgical operation, arrange your temporal affairs. You may live.
I'm living everyday like a hustle. Another drug to juggle. Another day, another struggle.
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