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I am a strict monogamist: it is twenty years since I last went to bed with two women at once, and then I was in my cups and not myself.
H. L. Mencken
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes a commitment to monogamy and acknowledges past mistakes influenced by alcohol.

H. L. Mencken's quote reflects a personal commitment to monogamy, indicating that he has refrained from relationships with multiple partners simultaneously for two decades. He admits that his only deviation from this principle occurred when he was under the influence of alcohol, suggesting a belief that true monogamy requires clarity and self-control.

Themes

MonogamyCommitmentRelationshipsAlcoholSelf-Control

In practice

Example use cases

In discussing the importance of commitment in relationships.

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