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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment
Pema Chodron
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Embracing change leads to enlightenment, while resisting it causes suffering.

This quote by Pema Chodron emphasizes the importance of accepting change as an inherent part of life. Resistance to change often results in suffering, as we struggle against the inevitable transformations we face. However, when we learn to let go and embrace the fluid, unpredictable nature of our circumstances, we can achieve a deeper understanding and enlightenment.

Themes

ChangeEnlightenmentSufferingAcceptanceResilience

In practice

Example use cases

In a personal development seminar discussing the importance of adaptability in life changes.

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