Never once, during any of my bouts of depression, had I been inclined or able to pick up a telephone and ask a friend for help. It wasn't in me.
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Looking at suicide—the sheer numbers, the pain leading up to it, and the suffering left behind—is harrowing. For every moment of exuberance in the science, or in the success of governments, there is a matching and terrible reality of the deaths themselves: the young deaths, the violent deaths, the unnecessary deaths
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the tragic reality of suicide and its profound impact on individuals and society.
Kay Redfield Jamison reflects on the dual nature of life by juxtaposing the moments of scientific and societal success with the stark reality of suicide. She emphasizes that for every achievement, there are countless individuals suffering from the pain of loss, and the quote serves as a reminder of the urgent need to address mental health and acknowledge the devastating consequences of suicide.
Themes
SuicideSufferingMental HealthLossReality
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used to raise awareness during mental health campaigns.
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