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What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
Iris Murdoch
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True love involves a deep longing for someone's presence and connection.

In this quote, Iris Murdoch emphasizes that love transcends mere feelings of devotion, admiration, or passion. The longing for someone's company signifies a profound connection that reflects true love, where the desire to be with someone is a key indicator of genuine affection and bond.

Themes

LoveLongingAffectionDevotionConnection

In practice

Example use cases

This quote would be perfect to share at a wedding to emphasize the beauty of longing in love.

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