What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
Perhaps when distant people on other planets pick up some wavelength of ours all they hear is a continuous scream.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that our communication might be perceived differently by others, possibly as chaotic or distressing.
Iris Murdoch's quote reflects on the nature of human expression and the possibility that our signals—be they emotional or verbal—may not be interpreted as intended by others, especially those who are fundamentally different from us. It raises questions about the effectiveness of communication across vast differences, hinting at the potential for misunderstanding and the inherent isolation we may experience in our attempts to connect with others, whether they are near or far.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a lecture on communication barriers, this quote can highlight the challenges in understanding across cultures.
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