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That's the way it is when you love. It makes you suffer, and I have suffered much in the years since. But it matters little that you suffer, so long as you feel alive with a sense of the close bond that connects all living things, so long as love does not die!
Hermann Hesse
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Love brings both joy and suffering, but the connection it creates is what truly matters.

This quote by Hermann Hesse expresses the dual nature of love; it can lead to deep suffering yet is integral to feeling alive. The pain we endure because of love is overshadowed by the profound bond it forges among all living beings, emphasizing that the essence of love should not perish despite the hardship it may cause.

Themes

LoveSufferingConnectionBondLife

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Example use cases

This quote can be shared during a wedding speech to highlight the beautiful complexity of love.

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