Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
Rollo MayRead
I believe that the therapist's function should be to help people become free to be aware of and to experience their possibilities.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Therapists should empower individuals to explore and recognize their potential and options in life.
Rollo May emphasizes that the role of a therapist is not just to treat symptoms, but to facilitate personal growth by enabling clients to discover and embrace their own possibilities. This notion fosters a sense of freedom and self-awareness, encouraging individuals to realize their full potential and navigate their lives with intention.
Themes
TherapistFreedomAwarenessPossibilitiesPersonal Growth
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be a great addition to a mental health awareness campaign.
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