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They've lived here now for more than half of their lives, and they raised a family here and now have grandchildren here... It has become their home, but at the same time, for my parents, I don't think either of them will ever consciously think, 'I am an American.'
Jhumpa Lahiri
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What this quote means

This quote reflects the complex relationship between identity and belonging, particularly for immigrants.

In this quote, Jhumpa Lahiri illustrates the deep emotional ties that individuals can develop to a place, despite their cultural or national identity. The parents have built a life and family in a new country, forming a sense of home, yet their identity as Americans is not something they fully embrace, signifying the nuances of belonging for immigrants and the duality of their existence between their roots and their present.

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Example use cases

In a speech about the immigrant experience, this quote could highlight the emotional nuances of identity.

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