We burned with love for ourselves, all of us, starters of the fire we suffered- our love was the affliction for which only our love was the cure.
Jonathan Safran FoerRead
Things were happening around us, but nothing was happening between us.
Interpretation
The quote reflects a disconnect between external events and the internal emotional connection between two people.
This quote by Jonathan Safran Foer highlights the contrast between the external happenings in the world and the stagnant emotional state of a relationship. It suggests that while life continues and changes around two individuals, their bond may be lacking depth or progress, indicating a significant disconnect or unfulfilled potential in their connection.
In practice
In a discussion about effective communication in relationships.
We burned with love for ourselves, all of us, starters of the fire we suffered- our love was the affliction for which only our love was the cure.
Memory was supposed to fill the time, but it made time a hole to be filled. Each second was two hundred yards, to be walked, crawled. You couldn't see the next hour, it was so far in the distance. Tomorrow was over the horizon, and would take an entire day to reach.
She was not crying Which surprised me very much But I understand now That she had found places For her melancholy That were behind more masks Than only her eyes
What do babies dream of? She must be dreaming of the before-life, just as I dream of the afterlife.
A few weeks after the worst day, I started writing lots of letters. I don't know why, but it was one of the only things that made my boots lighter.
What is being awake if not interpreting our dreams, or dreaming if not interpreting our wake?
I cried a river of tears but he was too heavy to float on them. So I dragged him with me these years across an ocean.
Marriage equality does not diminish the worth of your relationships; it simply recognises the worth of ours.
And this would normalize the existence of the Israeli and the Jew: a majority of Jews in the Land of Israel and a majority of Israelis among the Jewish People.
So she viewed time spent in the land of the normal as an investigation into the world of marriage-worthy men, even if she was unsure about her own interest in marriage. There must be one solid citizen who also had a spark of life, a sense of humor and adventure.
Strange how complicated we can make things just to avoid showing what we feel!
We talk about feelings. And about sex. And about bodies, and their gratification, violation, repair, decoration, deferred, maybe permanently deferred, mortality. Feelings are a bodily thing, and respecting them is called, is, kindness.
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