Then there were things-- epic, terrible things-- that he didn't tell her but skirted around, like caressing the edges of a wound, hesitant, testing for pain.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the complexity of emotional experiences and the difficulty of fully expressing painful truths in relationships.
In this quote, Laini Taylor conveys the idea that some emotions and experiences are too intense or painful to openly discuss. Instead, individuals may approach these topics delicately, gauging the emotional response of the other person, much like one might lightly touch a sore spot to see if it hurts. It highlights the nuanced communication in relationships where deep feelings and traumas are often left unspoken, emphasizing vulnerability and the care one must take when navigating such sensitive matters.
In practice
In a therapy session when discussing how to approach difficult topics with a partner.
Itβs like losing gravity and falling into space β the moment of pitching headlong when the endlessness of space asserts itself and there is no more down, only an eternity of up, and you realize you can fall forever and never run out of stars.
Kizzy wanted it all so bad her soul leaned half out of her body hungering after it, and that was what drove the goblins wild, her soul hanging out there like an untucked shirt.
Never sit staring at a blank page or screen. If you find yourself stuck, write. Write about the scene you're trying to write. Writing about is easier than writing, and chances are, it will give you your way in.
When I turned to writing fantasy, and writing for young people, it was joyous. It was like discovering an underground lake of ideas that went on forever.
Dialogue is the place that books are most alive and forge the most direct connection with readers. It is also where we as writers discover our characters and allow them to become real.
Happiness. It was the place where passion, with all its dazzle and drumbeat, met something softer: homecoming and safety and pure sunbeam comfort. It was all those things, intertwined with the heat and the thrill, and it was as bright within her as a swallowed star.
If you learn how to forgive others for not being strong, then people can learn how to forgive you for your own issues.
Womenβs loyalty has to be earned with trust and affection, rather than barbaric rituals. The time has come to leave the old ways of suffering behind
Problems arise in that one has to find a balance between what people need from you and what you need for yourself.
A strong man doesn't have to be dominant toward a woman. He doesn't match his strength against a woman weak with love for him. He matches it against the world.
I'm always thinking about women, and what we need to hear. It's difficult being a woman. It's so much pressure, and we need that support sometimes and we need that escape sometimes.
Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
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