Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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Things themselves don't hurt or hinder us. Things simply are what they are. How we view these things is another matter.People think what they will think; it is of no concern to us.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our perception of things, not the things themselves, determines our experience of pain or hindrance.
This quote by Epictetus emphasizes the idea that external events or objects do not intrinsically possess the power to hurt or hinder us; instead, it is our interpretation and perspective of these events that truly affect us. It encourages individuals to recognize that their thoughts about circumstances are what truly govern their emotional responses, rather than the circumstances themselves.
Themes
PerceptionMindsetStoicismThoughtsInterpretation
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about resilience, this quote can remind the audience that their perspective can influence their challenges.
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Men are disturbed not by the things that happen, but by their opinion of the things that happen.
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The people have a right to the truth as they have a right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
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