It is when we try to grapple with another man's intimate need that we perceive how incomprehensible, wavering and misty are the beings that share with us the sight of the stars and the warmth of the sun. It is as if loneliness were a hard and absolute condition of existence; the envelope of flesh and blood on which our eyes are fixed melts before the outstretched hand, and there remains only the capricious, unconsolable and elusive spirit that no eye can follow, no hand can grasp.
We are snared into doing things for which we get called names, and things for which we get hanged, and yet the spirit may well survive - survive the condemnations, survive the halter, by Jove! And there are things - they look small enough sometimes too - by which some of us are totally and completely undone.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects the resilience of the human spirit in the face of societal judgment and personal failures.
In this quote, Joseph Conrad expresses the idea that while society may label us negatively or condemn us for our actions, the inner spirit can endure such trials. He juxtaposes the severity of capital punishment with the trivial challenges that can lead to one's downfall, suggesting that both external judgments and internal struggles shape our human experience. Conrad emphasizes the power of the spirit to survive amidst adversity and condemnation, pointing out that often, the things that seem insignificant can have profound effects on our lives.
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During a motivational speech, referencing the quote can highlight the importance of inner strength in overcoming adversity.
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