When I was five years old I was molested and just, you know. I remember feeling, literally right before it happened, I just could not believe that this person was going to do this to me. That thing followed me all my life. The shame of thinking my molestation was my fault - it led me to believe I wasn't worth anything.
I don't think there's anything they can say about me that I haven't said about myself already. And I would be an absolute total liar, and my fans would not respect me, if I said that my life and my marriage are perfect. But we absolutely love each other; we have fun together - it's great.
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The quote expresses honesty about personal imperfections while acknowledging the love and fun in a relationship.
Mary J. Blige emphasizes the importance of authenticity and transparency in relationships. Despite acknowledging that life and marriage are not perfect, she highlights the joy and love that exists between her and her partner, suggesting that true love can thrive even amidst challenges. This quote serves as a reminder that real relationships involve both the highs and lows, but ultimately, mutual respect and joy are what make them meaningful.
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In a speech about love and authenticity, one could use this quote to emphasize the value of being honest in relationships.
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I don't know. Only God knows where the story ends for me, but I know where the story begins. It's up to us to choose, whether we win or lose and I choose to win.
As a child I always wanted to be a singer. The music my mother played in the house moved me - Aretha Franklin, Chaka Khan, Mahalia Jackson. It was truly spiritual. It made you understand what God was. We are all spirits. We get depressed. But music makes you want to live. I know my music has saved my life.
Really, every woman is an example to me, because as women we go through so much pain. We have to live this perfect life when we are messed up inside. We all go through trials and tribulations.
I've been praying to God to show me how to forgive myself. Because... maybe... that's the thing I've been searching for.
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