some mornings... I sit at the kitchen table shaking salt into the hairs on my arm, and a feeling shoves up in me: it's finished. Everything went past without me.
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I grew up thinking you're either a winner in the world, or you're not. I presumed I was not. I had no reason to think I would be, and my inclination is towards self-deprecation. I wish I'd known no one was judging my every move, but I'm still like this!
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the pressure to succeed and the author's struggle with self-doubt.
In this quote, Jennifer Egan expresses the mindset of growing up in a competitive environment where success is seemingly binary—either one is a winner or not. Egan conveys her feelings of inadequacy and self-deprecation, highlighting the internal pressure she placed on herself while suggesting that the fear of judgment from others is often unfounded. Her reflection reveals a common human experience of grappling with self-worth and the importance of recognizing that we are often our own harshest critics.
Themes
Self-DoubtSuccessJudgmentWinnerSelf-Worth
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming self-doubt.
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