The strange power of art is sometimes it can show that what people have in common is more urgent than what differentiates them. It seems to me it's something that theatre can do, but it's rare; it's very rare.
John BergerRead
So time doesn't count, and place does?' I said this to tease her. When I was a man, I liked teasing her and she went along with it, consenting, for it reminded us both of a sadness that had passed.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the nature of relationships and how shared moments can evoke both joy and sadness.
John Berger's quote reveals the complexities of human connections, suggesting that time and place lose significance when memories and emotions are intertwined. The act of teasing becomes a playful reminder of past sorrows, highlighting how relationships navigate through both joyful and melancholic experiences, reaffirming the bond between individuals.
Themes
RelationshipsMemoriesTeasingSadnessConnection
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of companionship, one might say, 'As Berger reflects, even teasing can bring us closer together during difficult times.'
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