To me, there is nothing higher than fiction. Nothing. It is fundamentally who I am. I am a teller of stories. For me, that's the only way I can make sense of the world, with all the dance that it involves.
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This was the trouble with families. Like invidious doctors, they knew just where it hurt.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Families often understand each other's pain deeply, but this can lead to hurtful experiences.
In this quote, Arundhati Roy reflects on the complexities of family relationships, suggesting that family members often have an intimate knowledge of each other's vulnerabilities. This deep understanding can foster a sense of connection, but it also has the potential to cause emotional pain as they may unintentionally exploit this knowledge, similar to how a doctor might know exactly where to inflict discomfort in order to diagnose or treat.
Themes
FamilyPainRelationshipsHurtUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a family gathering to spark discussions about family dynamics.
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