I am a person who continually destroys the possibilities of a future because of the numbers of alternative viewpoints I can focus on the present.
Doris LessingRead
Growing up is, after all, only the understanding that one's unique and incredible experience is what every one shares.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Growing up involves recognizing the shared nature of individual experiences.
This quote by Doris Lessing encapsulates the essence of maturity as the realization that, despite our unique journeys, there are common threads that bind our experiences together. It suggests that personal growth is not just an individual endeavor but a collective understanding of the human experience and the emotions we all share.
Themes
Growing UpExperienceSharedUnderstandingLife Lessons
In practice
Example use cases
In a graduation speech to emphasize the importance of shared experiences.
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The World War I, I'm a child of World War I. And I really know about the children of war. Because both my parents were both badly damaged by the war. My father, physically, and both mentally and emotionally. So, I know exactly what it's like to be brought up in an atmosphere of a continual harping on the war.
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You should write, first of all, to please yourself. You shouldn't care a damn about anybody else at all. But writing can't be a way of life - the important part of writing is living. You have to live in such a way that your writing emerges from it.
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