You fall out of your mother's womb, you crawl across open country under fire, and drop into your grave.
Quentin CrispRead
In an expanding universe, time is on the side of the outcast. Those who once inhabited the suburbs of human contempt find that without changing their address they eventually live in the metropolis.
Interpretation
Time can change societal perceptions, allowing outcasts to gain acceptance and recognition without needing to alter their circumstances.
Quentin Crisp's quote suggests that over time, people who are marginalized or judged by society can find themselves accepted as societal views evolve. The 'outcast' may start as someone who faces contempt, but as time progresses, cultural paradigms shift, and they can rise to a position of prominence within the 'metropolis' of society, all while remaining true to their identities and not conforming to societal norms.
In practice
During a speech about social justice, one might cite this quote to emphasize the shifting norms in society.
You fall out of your mother's womb, you crawl across open country under fire, and drop into your grave.
The consuming desire of most human beings is deliberately to plant their whole life in the hands of some other person. I would describe this method of searching for happiness as immature. Development of character consists solely in moving toward self-sufficiency.
What would you be like if you were the only person in the world? If you want to be truly happy you must be that person.
The search for a life-style involves a journey to the interior. This is not altogether a pleasant experience, because you not only have to take stock of what you consider your assets but you also have to take a long look at what your friends call “the trouble with you.” Nevertheless, the journey is worth making.
If you describe things as better than they are, you are considered to be a romantic; if you describe things as worse than they are, you will be called a realist; and if you describe things exactly as they are, you will be thought of as a satirist.
The flagrantly gay Quentin Crisp dealt with homophobic bullying by refusing to bow to its onslaught. His number listed in the phone directory, he responded to derogatory remarks accompanied with a stated intent to kill him by asking, "Would you like to make an appointment?"
Bewildered is the fox who lives to find that grapes beyond reach can be really sour.
Perfectionism is really a manifestation of the belief that one's efforts are never good enough. Imagine: How many of the obstacles standing in your way are the product of your own imagination? What have you convinced yourself that you can't do? What limitations have you come to believe in? Your mind is very powerful and effective. Is it working for you, or against you?
It is a rare and difficult attainment to grow old gracefully and happily.
Never promise more than you can perform.
Let the human mind loose. It must be loose. It will be loose. Superstition and dogmatism cannot confine it.
There's nothing worse than being an aging young person.
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