The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that any sexual act is natural if one is able to perform it; limitations come from personal circumstances rather than morality.
Alfred Kinsey's quote emphasizes that the nature of sexual acts is subjective, and what is considered 'unnatural' is merely a reflection of an individual's capabilities or preferences. It challenges societal norms and beliefs about sexuality, highlighting the importance of understanding that human sexuality is diverse and varied, and that each person's experiences and abilities shape their understanding of what is normal.
In practice
During a discussion on sexual health, one might reference this quote to emphasize the diversity of human sexuality.
The very general occurrence of the homosexual in ancient Greece, and its wide occurrence today in some cultures in which such activity is not taboo suggests that the capacity of an individual to respond erotically to any sort of stimulus, whether it is provided by another person of the same or opposite sex, is basic in the species.
If biologists so often forget the most universal of all biologic principles [variation], it is not surprising that men and women in general expect their fellows to think and behave according to the pattern that may fit the law-maker, or the imaginary ideals for which the legislation was fashioned, but which are ill-shaped for all real individuals who try to live under them.
The range of variation in the female far exceeds the range of variation in the male.
Few males achieve any real freedom in their sexual relations even with their wives. Few males realise how badly inhibited they are on these matters.
The heterosexuality or homosexuality of many individuals is not an all-or-none proposition.
If all persons with any trace of homosexual history, or those who were predominantly homosexual, were eliminated from the population today, there is no reason for believing that the incidence of the homosexual in the next generation would be materially reduced. The homosexual has been a significant part of human sexual activity since the dawn of history, primarily because it is an expression of capacities that are basic in the human animal.
I don't want to have a relationship with someone if I'm not going to work with them.
Anything that makes you feel the most alone also has the greatest power to connect you.
You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.
I do not remember very many things from the inside out. I do not remember what it felt like to touch things, or how bathwater traveled over my skin. I did not like to be touched, but it was a strange dislike. I did not like to be touched because I craved it too much. I wanted to be held very tight so I would not break. Even now, when people lean down to touch me, or hug me, or put a hand on my shoulder, I hold my breath. I turn my face. I want to cry.
Many people believe that introversion is about being antisocial, and that's really a misperception. Because actually it's just that introverts are differently social. So they would prefer to have a glass of wine with a close friend as opposed to going to a loud party full of strangers.
Brother, hello and good-bye. Frater, ave atque vale
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