The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that any sexual act is natural if one is able to perform it; limitations come from personal circumstances rather than morality.
Alfred Kinsey's quote emphasizes that the nature of sexual acts is subjective, and what is considered 'unnatural' is merely a reflection of an individual's capabilities or preferences. It challenges societal norms and beliefs about sexuality, highlighting the importance of understanding that human sexuality is diverse and varied, and that each person's experiences and abilities shape their understanding of what is normal.
In practice
During a discussion on sexual health, one might reference this quote to emphasize the diversity of human sexuality.
The very general occurrence of the homosexual in ancient Greece, and its wide occurrence today in some cultures in which such activity is not taboo suggests that the capacity of an individual to respond erotically to any sort of stimulus, whether it is provided by another person of the same or opposite sex, is basic in the species.
If biologists so often forget the most universal of all biologic principles [variation], it is not surprising that men and women in general expect their fellows to think and behave according to the pattern that may fit the law-maker, or the imaginary ideals for which the legislation was fashioned, but which are ill-shaped for all real individuals who try to live under them.
The range of variation in the female far exceeds the range of variation in the male.
Few males achieve any real freedom in their sexual relations even with their wives. Few males realise how badly inhibited they are on these matters.
The heterosexuality or homosexuality of many individuals is not an all-or-none proposition.
If all persons with any trace of homosexual history, or those who were predominantly homosexual, were eliminated from the population today, there is no reason for believing that the incidence of the homosexual in the next generation would be materially reduced. The homosexual has been a significant part of human sexual activity since the dawn of history, primarily because it is an expression of capacities that are basic in the human animal.
We hurt people that love us, love people that hurt us
I was tired of pretending that I was someone else just to get along with people, just for the sake of having friendships.
It really is the relationship you have with your self that presents the key to the βkingdomβ, so to speak... Fighting is good, but not when it is fighting yourself. Changing the world is good but first one has to start inside and concurrently make that place right. The strife and the ugliness in the world is the outward manifestation of this troubled relationship we have within on a whole.
I'm very fortunate to have a coach that I got to stay with all this time. Every year the bond gets stronger and better, and we understand each other more. And it's like she can tell if I walk into the gym what kind of mood I'm in, what she has to fix for the practice I need, or how I'm feeling.
Promises are worse than lies. You don't just make them believe, you also make them hope.
He feared me as many men fear women: because their mistresses (or their wives) understand them. They are scarcely adult, some men: they wish women to understand them, and to that end they tell them all their secrets; and then, when they are properly understood, they hate their women for understanding them.
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