If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
All of us knows, not what is expedient, not what is going to make us popular, not what the policy is, or the company policy - but in truth each of us knows what is the right thing to do. And that's how I am guided.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that true guidance comes from an internal understanding of what is right, regardless of external factors like popularity or policies.
Maya Angelou highlights the inherent knowledge that each individual possesses about right and wrong, suggesting that personal integrity and moral compass should guide our actions rather than societal pressures or the desire for acceptance. The quote encourages individuals to trust their own judgment and values in making decisions, reinforcing the idea that ethical choices stem from an inner conviction rather than external influences.
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Example use cases
During a leadership seminar, someone might reference this quote to encourage ethical decision-making among leaders.
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