My goal now is to remember every place I've been, only do things I love, and not say yes when I don't mean it.
I think most of us are raised with preconceived notions of the choices we're supposed to make. We waste so much time making decisions based on someone else's idea of our happiness - what will make you a good citizen or a good wife or daughter or actress. Nobody says, 'Just be happy - go be a cobbler or go live with goats.'
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This quote emphasizes the importance of making choices based on one's own happiness rather than conforming to societal expectations.
Sandra Bullock highlights the societal pressures that often shape our decisions and the pursuit of happiness. She suggests that many people are raised with predetermined ideas of success and fulfillment, which can lead to wasted time and unfulfilled lives. Instead, she urges individuals to prioritize their own happiness and personal desires, which may not align with conventional ideas of what one should aspire to.
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In a motivational speech about following your passion, one might quote Bullock to encourage people to pursue their true desires.
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I was afraid of being a failure, of not having the best time or of being chicken. But every year I get older I think, What was I fearing last year?' You forget. And then you move on.
There's no race, no religion, no class system, no color - nothing - no sexual orientation, that makes us better than anyone else. We're all deserving of love.
I was always longing to do, emotionally and physically, what my male counterparts always got to do. I just felt envious, every time I saw a movie that I was in awe of, and it was usually a male lead. And those kinds of roles weren't available. They just weren't being written.
You don't have to give birth to someone to have a family.
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I'm trying to look at my blessings and how amazingly well against all odds things have turned out for me.