What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
No use slaving for me and then saying you want to be cared for: who cares for a slave? If you come back, come back for the sake of good fellowship; for you’ll get nothing else.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that true connections are built on mutual respect and goodwill, not obligation.
George Bernard Shaw's quote suggests that genuine relationships should be founded on cooperation and camaraderie rather than servitude or obligation. It critiques the mindset of expecting care and respect from those who are treated as subordinates or slaves, highlighting that such dynamics are devoid of true fellowship. The call to return 'for the sake of good fellowship' underlines the importance of valuing relationships based on mutual enjoyment and companionship rather than coercion or duty.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote in a discussion about the importance of mutual respect in friendships.
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