Vanity is so frequently the apparent motive of advice that we, for the most part, summon our powers to oppose it without very accurate inquiry whether it is right. It is sufficient that another is growing great in his own eyes at our expense, and assumes authority over us without our permission; for many would contentedly suffer the consequences of their own mistakes, rather than the insolence of him who triumphs as their deliverer.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that people often resist advice due to vanity, preferring to endure their own failures rather than submit to the authority of someone they perceive as arrogant.
In this quote, Samuel Johnson reflects on the nature of advice and authority, highlighting how vanity can cloud judgment. He points out that individuals are often more concerned with their pride than the soundness of advice offered, leading them to reject helpful guidance simply because they perceive the advisor’s rise as a threat to their own self-worth. This illustrates the complex dynamics between pride, failure, and the authority individuals grant to others.
In practice
In a discussion about personal growth during a workshop.
To be of no church is dangerous. Religion, of which the rewards are distant, and which is animated only by faith and hope, will glide by degrees out of the mind unless it be invigorated and reimpressed by external ordinances, by stated calls to worship, and the salutary influence of example.
He that reads and grows no wiser seldom suspects his own deficiency, but complains of hard words and obscure sentences, and asks why books are written which cannot be understood.
To let friendship die away by negligence and silence is certainly not wise. It is voluntarily to throw away one of the greatest comforts of the weary pilgrimage.
Fly-fishing may be a very pleasant amusement; but angling or float fishing I can only compare to a stick and a string, with a worm at one end and a fool at the other.
When any anxiety or gloom of the mind takes hold of you, make it a rule not to publish it by complaining; but exert yourselves to hide it, and by endeavoring to hide it you drive it away.
A fishing rod is a stick with a hook at one end and a fool at the other.
For years, I prayed to the gods of Cao Dai for healing and peace. But as one prayer after another went unanswered, it became clear that either they were nonexistent or they did not care to lend a hand.
Even people who say that black people are minorities, there are a billion black people in the world. A billion white people. What part of that is a minority? If you separate yourself, then maybe. But I see black people as one man. When I see people beaten on the streets of America, that hurts me. I feel that.
You get to consciously decide what has meaning and what doesn't. You get to decide what to worship.
I realize that in this undertaking I place myself in a certain opposition to views widely held concerning the mathematical infinite and to opinions frequently defended on the nature of numbers.
All men would be masters of others, and no man is lord of himself.
In the West, we have been withdrawing from our tradition-, religion-, and even nation-centred cultures.
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