I verily believe that her not remembering and not minding in the least, made me cry again, inwardly - and that is the sharpest crying of all.
Interpretation
The quote expresses the deep emotional pain caused by a loved one’s indifference.
In this quote, Charles Dickens reflects on the sorrow that accompanies unreciprocated feelings. The act of someone we care about not remembering or caring about us can evoke a profound sense of loneliness and emotional anguish, which he describes as the 'sharpest' form of sadness, indicating that the deepest pain often comes from emotional neglect rather than open conflict or rejection.
In practice
In a relationship therapy session, one might use this quote to illustrate the pain of feeling unnoticed.
I recollected one story there was in the village, how that on a certain night in the year (it might be that very night for anything I knew), all the dead people came out of the ground and sat at the heads of their own graves till morning.
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Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts. I was better after I had cried, than before--more sorry, more aware of my own ingratitude, more gentle.
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You might, from your appearance, be the wife of Lucifer,” said Miss Pross, in her breathing. “Nevertheless, you shall not get the better of me. I am an Englishwoman.
Christmas is a poor excuse every 25th of December to pick a man's pockets.
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As he took her hand she saw him look her over from head to foot, a gesture she recognized and that made her feel at home, but gave her always a faint feeling of superiority to whoever made it. If her person was property she could exercise whatever advantage was inherent in its ownership.
We think constant connection will make us feel less lonely. The opposite is true.
Just to be clear, Ray Rice was not fired for beating his wife. He was fired because a video of him beating his wife was released.
Test a servant while in the discharge of his duty, a relative in difficulty, a friend in adversity, and a wife in misfortune.
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