The wars don't end when you sign peace treaties or when the years go by. They will echo on until I'm gone and all the widows and orphans are gone.
It was my view then, and still is, that you don't make war without knowing why. Knowledge of course, is always imperfect, but it seemed to me that when a nation goes to war it must have reasonable confidence in the justice and imperative of its cause. You can't fix your mistakes. Once people are dead, you can't make them undead.
Interpretation
What this quote means
War should only be waged with a clear understanding of its justification and consequences.
In this quote, Tim O'Brien emphasizes the moral complexity of war and the importance of understanding the reason behind it. He suggests that nations must approach war with a deep commitment to its justification, as the irreversible nature of death makes it essential to ensure that the cause is worthy and just. The acknowledgment that knowledge is inherently imperfect adds weight to the responsibility of those who decide to initiate conflict, highlighting the grave consequences of misguided decisions.
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Example use cases
During a debate on military intervention, one might reference this quote to highlight the need for justification before engaging in conflict.
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