I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Marcus AureliusRead
Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.
Interpretation
Instead of debating ideals, focus on embodying the qualities of a good person.
This quote by Marcus Aurelius emphasizes the importance of action over discussion when it comes to moral character. Rather than spending time in pointless arguments about the traits that constitute a 'good man', Aurelius urges individuals to embody those traits in their own lives, highlighting the significance of personal responsibility and integrity.
In practice
During a leadership seminar focusing on personal development.
I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.
Do not act as if you were going to live ten thousand years. Death hangs over you. While you live, while it is in your power, be good.
Vex not thy spirit at the course of things; they heed not thy vexation. How ludicrous and outlandish is astonishment at anything that may happen in life.
You don't have to turn this into something. It doesn't have to upset you. Things can't shape our decisions by themselves.
A man's worth is no greater than his ambitions.
I honestly felt no envy or resentment, only astonishment at how much of a world there was out there and how much of it others already knew. The agenda for self-cultivation that had been set for my classmates by their teachers and parents was something I'd have to develop for myself.
We are creatures of our thinking. We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory.
The nearest way to glory a shortcut, as it were is to strive to be what you wish to be thought to be.
Remember this Saying, 'That the good Paymaster is Lord of another Man's Purse.' He that is known to pay punctually and exactly to the Time he promises, may at any Time, and on any Occasion, raise all the Money his Friends can spare.
One of my greatest pleasures in my writing has come from the thought that perhaps my work might annoy someone of comfortably pretentious position. Then comes the realization that such people rarely read.
If a man could have half of his wishes, he would double his troubles.
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