I stare out the window and reflect on the similarity between writing and saving a life and the inevitable failure of one's imagination and one's goals and ambitions to create a character or a life worth saving.
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I had a thought, on the way home from the rock field, that the things we don't know about a person are the things that make them human, and it made me feel sad to think that, but sad in that reassuring way that some sadness has, a sadness that says welcome home in twelve different languages.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The unknown aspects of a person's identity contribute to their humanity, evoking a comforting sadness.
Miriam Toews reflects on the complexity of human nature, suggesting that it is the unshared experiences and secrets of individuals that enrich their humanity. This realization brings a bittersweet feeling, as it highlights the depth of connection possible through understanding the unseen parts of others, ultimately offering a sense of belonging and acceptance.
Themes
HumanitySecretsEmpathyConnectionUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
In a heartfelt speech at a community gathering.
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