Parents are usually more careful to bestow knowledge on their children rather than virtue, the art of speaking well rather than doing well; but their manners should be of the greatest concern.
You can't change the way people think, all you can do is give them a tool, the use of which will change their thinking.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes that while changing others' minds directly is difficult, providing them with the right tools can facilitate a shift in their perspective.
R. Buckminster Fuller's quote suggests that individuals often hold tightly to their beliefs and thought patterns, making it challenging to alter their mindset directly. Instead of attempting to dictate how someone should think, the more effective approach is to equip them with resources or tools that encourage independent thought and reflection, ultimately leading to a transformation in their understanding and perspective.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about innovation, one could use this quote to illustrate the importance of equipping others with the tools they need to think differently.
More from R. Buckminster Fuller
All quotes βThere is no such thing as genius, some children are just less damaged than others.
Only the free-wheeling artist-explorer, non-academic, scientist-philosopher, mechanic, economist-poet who has never waited for patron-starting and accrediting of his co-ordinate capabilities holds the prime initiative today.
The end move in politics is always to pick up a gun.
I have spent most of my life unlearning things that were proved not to be true
The earth is like a spaceship that didn't come with an operating manual.
Similar quotes
Where you are is of no moment, but only what you are doing there. It is not the place that ennobles you, but you the place, and this only by doing that which is great and noble.
Whoever travels without a guide, needs two hundred years for a two-day journey.
And what I have, what I am, is enough, was always enough for me, and as far as my dear little sweet little future is concerned I have no qualms, I have a good time coming.
When we renounce our dreams, we find peace and enjoy a brief period of tranquillity, but the dead dreams begin to rot inside us and to infect the whole atmosphere in which we live. What we hoped to avoid in the Fight -disappointment and defeat- become the sole legacy of our cowardice.
Audacity, always audacity - soundest principal of strategy.
People discover that by helping others, even when they themselves are suffering, they end up improving their own lives.