The spiritual journey involves going beyond hope and fear, stepping into unknown territory, continually moving forward. The most important aspect of being on the spiritual path may be just to keep moving.
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Remind yourself, in whatever way is personally meaningful, that it is not in your best interest to reinforce thoughts and feelings of unworthiness. Even if you've already taken the bait and feel the familiar pull of self-denigration, marshal your intelligence, courage, and humor in order to turn the tide. Ask yourself: Do I want to strengthen what I'm feeling now? Do I want to cut myself off from my basic goodness? Remind yourself that your fundamental nature is unconditionally open and free.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reminds us to combat feelings of unworthiness and embrace our inherent goodness.
Pema Chodron emphasizes the importance of recognizing and challenging self-deprecating thoughts. Instead of succumbing to feelings of unworthiness, we should actively use our intelligence, courage, and humor to counteract negative emotions, reminding ourselves of our fundamental nature which is inherently open and free. This self-reminder helps reinforce our self-worth and encourages a positive mindset.
Themes
Self-WorthUnworthinessSelf-AcceptanceCourageIntelligence
In practice
Example use cases
During a workshop about mental health, this quote can be used to encourage participants to recognize and fight against negative self-perception.
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