Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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Whenever you are angry, be assured that it is not only a present evil, but that you have increased a habit.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Anger is harmful in the moment and also leads to the development of a negative habit over time.
Epictetus emphasizes that anger is not just a fleeting emotion but a destructive force that can lead to habitual responses. When we allow ourselves to become angry, we not only face immediate harm but also cultivate a pattern that can lead to more anger in the future, suggesting the importance of self-control and awareness of our emotional responses.
Themes
AngerHabitEmotionSelf-ControlWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about emotional intelligence, one might cite this quote to underline the need to manage anger.
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