Because neither she nor Port had ever lived a life of any kind of regularity, they had both made the fatal error of coming hazily to regard time as non-existent. One year was like another year. Eventually everything would happen.
Paul BowlesRead
Whereas the tourist generally hurries back home at the end of a few weeks or months, the traveler belonging no more to one place than to the next, moves slowly over periods of years, from one part of the earth to another. Indeed, he would have found it difficult to tell, among the many places he had lived, precisely where it was he had felt most at home.
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What this quote means
The quote contrasts tourists who quickly visit places with travelers who immerse themselves in different locations over time.
In this quote, Paul Bowles highlights the difference between a tourist and a traveler. While tourists tend to rush through destinations, often returning home after a short period, travelers spend extended time in various locations, forming deeper connections with the places they visit. This extended journey leads travelers to develop a sense of belonging that transcends individual locations, making it challenging for them to identify a singular 'home.'
Themes
TravelTourismExplorationHomeJourney
In practice
Example use cases
This quote is perfect for inspiring discussions on travel culture at a seminar.
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