Whereas the tourist generally hurries back home at the end of a few weeks or months, the traveler belonging no more to one place than to the next, moves slowly over periods of years, from one part of the earth to another. Indeed, he would have found it difficult to tell, among the many places he had lived, precisely where it was he had felt most at home.
Because neither she nor Port had ever lived a life of any kind of regularity, they had both made the fatal error of coming hazily to regard time as non-existent. One year was like another year. Eventually everything would happen.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the perception of time and how a lack of structure in life can lead to the belief that time is inconsequential.
In this quote, Paul Bowles highlights the consequences of living without regularity or structure, suggesting that when individuals do not establish a routine, they can start to perceive time as fluid and insignificant. This perspective leads to a hazy understanding of life's temporal progression, causing them to feel that events will eventually unfold without the need for urgency or action, ultimately resulting in missed opportunities and a stagnant existence.
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Example use cases
In a conversation about life choices, this quote could emphasize the importance of having a structured approach to time.
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All quotes →I've always wanted to get as far as possible from the place where I was born. Far both geographically and spiritually. To leave it behind ... I feel that life is very short and the world is there to see and one should know as much about it as possible. One belongs to the whole world, not just one part of it.
Each time I go to a place I have not seen before I hope it will be as different as possible from the places I already know. I assume it is natural for a traveler to seek diversity, and that it is the human element that makes him most aware of difference. If people and their manner of living were alike everywhere, there would not be much point in moving from one place to another.
[A]nother important difference between tourist and traveler is that the former accepts his own civilization without question; not so the traveler, who compares it with the others, and rejects those elements he finds not to his liking.
The act of living had been enjoyable; at some point when I was not paying attention, it had turned into a different sort of experience, to whose grimness I had grown so accustomed that I now took it for granted.
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