We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
OvidRead
Whether you call my heart affectionate, or you call it womanish: I confess, that to my misfortune, it is soft.
Interpretation
The speaker admits to being emotionally vulnerable and sensitive, often perceived as a weakness.
In this quote, the author reflects on the nature of love and affection, acknowledging that their heart is soft and tender, which may be deemed as a flaw or weakness, particularly in the context of gender expectations. The speaker seems to recognize the dichotomy between emotional strength and perceived weakness in being sensitive, ultimately embracing their vulnerability as an essential part of their identity.
In practice
Use this quote in a speech about the importance of emotional intelligence in relationships.
We are slow to believe that which if believed would hurt our feelings.
All things human hang by a slender thread; and that which seemed to stand strong suddenly falls and sinks in ruins.
A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip and worried to death by a frown on the right man's brow.
Fas est ab hoste doceri._x000D_ One should learn even from one's enemies.
Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.
The end doesn't justify the means.
How can so much beauty hide such a bruised and steely heart, and why must I love him, why must I lean in my weariness upon his irresistible yet indomitable strength? Is he not the wizend funeral spirit of a dead man in a child's clothes?
Life with you was lovelyβand when I say lovely, I mean doves and lilies, and velvet, and that soft pink βvβ in the middle and the way your tongue curved up to the long, lingering βl.β Our life together was alliterative, and when I think of all the little things which will die, now that we cannot share them, I feel as if we were dead too.
We do not exist for ourselves alone, and it is only when we are fully convinced of this fact that we begin to love ourselves properly and thus also love others.
Stand and face me, my love,and scatter the grace in your eyes.
Love opens all doors, no matter how tightly closed they may be, no matter how rusty from lack of use. Your work is to bring unity and harmony, to open all those doors which have been closed for a long time. Have patience and tolerance. Open your heart all the time.
There is no mistaking a real book when one meets it. It is like falling in love.
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