We do not choose survival as a value, it chooses us.
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What is love except another name for the use of positive reinforcement? Or vice versa.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that love can be understood as a form of positive reinforcement in relationships.
This quote by B. F. Skinner implies that the concept of love is intricately linked to the behaviors that are encouraged through positive reinforcement. It suggests that what we often refer to as love may be fundamentally about creating an environment where positive behaviors are rewarded, thereby reinforcing the bond between individuals.
Themes
LovePositive ReinforcementRelationshipsBehaviorPsychology
In practice
Example use cases
During a relationship counseling session, I quoted Skinner to illustrate how love can be nurtured through positivity.
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